Bullshittery at its finest.
Full Disclosure: I have been the “but I didn’t mean to” person in the past.
Hurting someone is like doing something racist (which also hurts people, obviously): IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOUR INTENTION WAS. OWN THE RESULT OF YOUR ACTIONS.
While I’m at it, “I’m sorry if I hurt you” is not an apology. “I’m sorry” is an apology. Full Stop.
I’m also relinking to the original post, because Moosekleenex is instantly recognizable and her credit is removed far too often.